it seems the the QImmunity clock doesnt work for me ,and im thinking its because i dont have the default portrait ,but a custom one,so it doesnt show up,is there any mod with a small clock what-so ever that i could use,to use to reset the fear DR that I might try ? it doesnt even havta be an add on ,just some how be able to use a in-game clock that i can glance up at.

I believe Natur's (NECB) can track dimishing returns.  ALso, Necrosis used to have a built in function where it would do a demonic laugh if the mob you just targeted was immune to fear and I *think* it counted for player characters also.